We’d been in the car for less than 10 minutes when he threw it out there: “Why are you still single?” He was part of the Alabama coaching staff and I knew exactly how he meant it. But what was I supposed to say? This was not the moment to talk about past relationships. This wasn’t the time to process my insecurities and fears. So, I looked at him with a wry smile and replied,” Well, coach, I’m going to take that as a compliment.”